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Zoe Smith on HIV, Prostitution, and Escaping Addiction

Ryan SicklerJune 2, 202256 min25,213 views
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Early Life and HIV Diagnosis

  • 💡 Zoe grew up in a small New Zealand town with a normal childhood and supportive parents.
  • 🎯 At 19, she met a man at a wedding who was later revealed to be gay and HIV positive.
  • ⚠️ Despite knowing his status, Zoe engaged in unprotected sex due to her youth and attraction, contracting HIV herself about a year later, shortly after her 20th birthday.

Descent into Addiction and Prostitution

  • 🚀 The relationship with her HIV-positive boyfriend led to drug use, specifically meth, which he introduced her to.
  • 💰 Facing financial struggles and a desire for a party lifestyle, Zoe began working as a prostitute, initially through online classifieds.
  • 🏠 She describes the transactional nature of her work, often feeling detached and prioritizing payment over enjoyment.
  • ⚠️ A particularly dangerous experience involved being in a house during a home invasion by gang members while with a client.

Life in Brothels and Risky Encounters

  • 🇦🇺 Zoe moved to Sydney, Australia, to work in a large brothel, finding the competition and environment intense.
  • 💊 She recounts an incident where she overdosed on Xanax provided by a Chinese drug dealer, leading to a fire in the brothel's accommodation and her dismissal.
  • 💔 Her relationship with her boyfriend ended when he became violent and stole her car, prompting her to seek help from her mother.

Recovery and New Beginnings

  • 🌱 After living with her mother and traveling, Zoe eventually became clean and sober.
  • 🐎 She met her now ex-husband while working as a horse wrangler in Croatia, a role she exaggerated her experience for.
  • ✅ Zoe disclosed her past, including her HIV status, to her husband, who accepted her, and they married and had children.
  • 💡 Today, Zoe is a personal trainer, having successfully navigated a challenging past to build a stable life.
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