What History's Greatest Thinkers Understood About Women's Behavior
[HPP] John GriffinJune 17, 202518 min
26 connectionsΒ·31 entities in this videoβAncient Wisdom for Modern Dating
- π‘ The video argues that modern dating challenges can be understood by examining over 2,000 years of psychological and philosophical evidence.
- π§ Insights from thinkers like Aristotle, Arthur Schopenhauer, and Carl Jung offer a roadmap to understanding contemporary relationships.
The Enduring Nature of Human Motivation
- β³ Despite changes in technology and societal settings, the underlying motivations of human beings have remained constant for at least 10,000 years.
- π Observations made by ancient philosophers reveal the root causes and motivations of women's behavior, which are still applicable today.
Carl Jung on Projection and Influence
- π Men often fall in love with a projection they place upon women (their "anima"), not the women themselves, assuming characteristics that may not exist.
- π± Dating apps and social media exacerbate this projection, as women present idealized versions of themselves, leading men to assume positive traits based on appearance.
- π―ββοΈ Jung also noted that women often desire what other women want, influenced by social media, fashion, and figures like the Kardashians, who shape modern female behavior.
Schopenhauer's Views on Psychological Power
- π‘ Schopenhauer observed that a woman's true power lies in her psychological influence, using behaviors to manipulate relationships without men realizing it.
- π» He predicted "emotional distancing," now known as ghosting, as a primary manipulative tool women use to their advantage, a behavior existing for centuries.
Timeless Female Behaviors
- β Philosophers from Aristotle to Jung noted women consistently testing men's emotional strength and boundaries to see what they could "get away with."
- π Both Aristotle and Schopenhauer identified women's expressed preference for higher-status men (hypergamy) as a long-standing behavior, not a recent phenomenon.
Impact of Modern Societal Changes
- π The advent of online dating and infinite choice, according to Schopenhauer's principles, leads to enormous dissatisfaction in relationships.
- πΈ Women's financial independence has fundamentally changed relationships, shifting them from necessity and survival to life enhancement, further enabling hypergamy.
Understanding Hardwired Human Behavior
- 𧬠Human behavior is hardwired through evolution and does not change rapidly with technology or social trends.
- π§ββοΈ It is more beneficial to recognize and understand these inherent behaviors in women rather than judging them, especially when entering a relationship.
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Women's BehaviorModern DatingAristotleArthur SchopenhauerCarl JungHuman MotivationsPsychological ProjectionDating AppsSocial Media InfluenceEmotional ManipulationGhostingHypergamyRelationship BoundariesFinancial IndependenceEvolutionary Psychology
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