Initial Grievances and Misunderstandings

• 👵 The OP, a 50-year-old woman, seeks advice on building a relationship with her 24-year-old daughter-in-law (B) after the birth of her granddaughter.
• 🚗 OP expresses frustration that her son refused to drive her to the hospital for the birth, despite her having an accident and no vehicle, while B's parents were present.
• 🏥 OP questions the postpartum diagnosis of her daughter-in-law, suggesting it might be a fabrication, and expresses concern over B's perceived unresponsiveness.

Escalating Conflict and Legal Threats

• 🗣️ After a visit where B was quiet and unhospitable, OP's son explains that OP was rude at the hospital and shouldn't have questioned the diagnosis or posted about the baby on Facebook.
• ⚖️ OP consults a lawyer about obtaining grandparent rights for her granddaughters, specifically mentioning Indiana law.
• ✉️ B sends a message to OP stating that due to the lawsuit threat, all contact will go through lawyers, and OP is blocked from social media and direct communication.

Deepening Issues and Self-Reflection

• 🏠 OP posts about removing her son from her will after their relationship deteriorates, citing her son's refusal to maintain contact without B's blessing.
• 🪴 It's revealed that OP is a hoarder and uses medical marijuana, which is illegal in her state.
• 💬 OP claims B left out crucial details from her own Reddit post, including a suicide attempt and a psychotic break, which OP now regrets.

Final Confrontation and Legal Pursuit

• 🏡 OP suspects her son and B have bought a new house under an LLC to hide their location and plans to hire a private investigator.
• 😠 OP expresses anger and a sense of betrayal, believing her daughter-in-law has manipulated her son and cut off her family.
• 🏠 In a separate post, OP inquires about squatters' rights, suggesting a plan to illegally occupy her son's empty house to prevent its sale.