Summer of Love: Listener Dating Stories & Updates | Death, Sex & Money
SlateJune 17, 202540 min218 views
32 connectionsΒ·40 entities in this videoβSummer of 2018 Dating Journeys
- π― Eight listeners shared their dating experiences over the summer of 2018, navigating romance, sex, and personal growth.
- π‘ Stories ranged from first sexual experiences and ghosting to managing grief while finding new love.
Vicki's Search for Romance and Freedom
- π Vicki, 62, sought both great sex and a grand romance, exploring connections with three different men and a long-time friend.
- βοΈ She grappled with the desire for a monogamous companion versus maintaining her freedom, ultimately enjoying her choices.
Cece's Unexpected Connection
- π¬ Cece, 37, initially seeking a partner without children, found herself unexpectedly falling for a man with two kids after a 5-hour phone call.
- β¨ She described the connection as an instant click, feeling giddy and knowing he was her future husband from their first date.
Thomas's New Identity Post-Divorce
- π Thomas, 26, initially hesitant about dating after a difficult divorce, found himself falling for a friend.
- π He focused on establishing a new identity beyond being 'the divorced person,' acknowledging the past but not letting it define him.
June's Summer of Firsts and Polyamory
- π June, 21, explored her sexuality, becoming active with multiple partners and experimenting with a one-night stand.
- π± She found polyamory rewarding but challenging, ultimately deciding against casual hookups to focus on meaningful connections.
Dan's Grief and New Relationship
- ποΈ Dan, a widower in his early 40s, navigated dating while still grieving his late wife, Kristen.
- β οΈ A conversation about naming a baby revealed the depth of his grief, prompting him to consciously separate past and present relationships.
Lewis's Dating App Frustrations
- π« Lewis experienced constant ghosting on dating apps in Washington D.C., leading to demoralization and a focus on self-care and training for a half marathon.
- πΆ He found solace in exercise and spending time with his dog to cope with the challenges of online dating.
Jesse's Shift to Simplicity
- ποΈ Jesse, after dating men in open relationships, opted for a less complicated dating setup, valuing her full life with friends and activities.
- β¨ She found a lightness and a clean slate feeling in her current single status.
Miracle's Evolving Romantic Potential
- π¬ Miracle, in her mid-20s, explored a potential romance with a friend while also planning for business school.
- π She later completed her MBA, moved to Nashville, and found a new, unexpected partner, while remaining friends with her 2018 connection.
Listener Updates and Show Information
- ποΈ Updates from Vicki, Jesse, and Miracle show their continued journeys in love and life.
- ποΈ The episode concludes with acknowledgments of the production team and information on how to support the show through Slate Plus.
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