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Sibling Rivalry: Bob and Monet Discuss Black Hair Journeys and Experiences

Sibling RivalryFebruary 19, 202159 min47,168 views
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Personal Hair Journeys and Choices

  • 💡 Bob shares his experience with male pattern baldness, starting around age 28, which led him to shave his head.
  • 💇‍♀️ Monet also identifies as bald by choice, shaving her head every few days, and admits to balding on her mother's side of the family.
  • 🎭 Both discuss the use of wigs and hairpieces as part of their drag personas, acknowledging the effort involved in maintaining these looks.

Hair Treatments and Transformations

  • 👱‍♂️ Monet reveals she once got a full "man weave" for their UK tour, documenting the process and its eventual removal due to scalp irritation.
  • 🧪 The conversation touches on chemical treatments like S-curl and relaxers, with both hosts recalling negative experiences, including scalp burns and hair damage.
  • 💡 The documentary "Good Hair" is mentioned, highlighting the significant market share of black hair products despite the Black population being a smaller percentage.

Cultural Significance and Identity

  • 🌟 The hosts discuss the historical pressure on Black women to conform to European beauty standards with straight, manageable hair, leading to the abuse of hair through treatments.
  • ✊ They celebrate the current embrace of natural, kinky Black hair as beautiful and a source of pride.
  • 🗣️ The term "good hair" is challenged, with the hosts asserting that all hair is good hair and depends on care and pride.

Experiences in the Entertainment Industry

  • 👑 Bob recounts being called "ratchet" for wearing an afro on RuPaul's Drag Race, despite feeling elegant.
  • 🎭 Monet shares an uncomfortable experience with a fellow queen who repeatedly asked for help styling an afro, feeling it was dismissive of Black hairstyles.
  • 🎬 Both discuss the unfairness of not having Black hair stylists on sets, leading to issues with makeup and hair for Black performers, and the importance of hiring Black hair stylists who understand diverse hair types.

Hair and Community

  • 💈 Bob shares a traumatic childhood experience at a barbershop involving aggressive handling and a painful edge-up.
  • 😥 Monet expresses a desire for a black gay barbershop for comfort around hyper-masculine environments.
  • 💡 The discussion also covers the politics of hair shops, with beauty supply stores often owned by Asian individuals, and the unique experiences within Black hair salons.

Personal Hair Choices and Maintenance

  • 🧴 Bob discusses managing razor bumps with laser hair removal and a specific trimmer, avoiding traditional razors on his face.
  • 🧼 The hosts compare washing habits, with Black individuals often using more oil and moisturizer, contrasting with some white individuals' practices.
  • 💰 The cost of wigs is a significant topic, with Monet detailing expenses for custom human hair wigs reaching over $2,000, and Bob discussing the effort and cost of making his own wig.

Nostalgic Hairstyles

  • 🌀 Monet fondly recalls late 90s/early 2000s hairstyles featuring intricate swirls and squigglies with a hair fall.
  • 🖤 Bob's favorite was the asymmetrical bob with an undercut, and he also loves dookie braids and box braids reminiscent of "Poetic Justice."
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