Selena Discusses Marriage Concerns and Communication Issues with Daughters on Belle Collective

Selena's Concerns About Mike's Communication

• 💬 Selena expresses frustration with Mike's lack of communication, stating he expects her to understand him with minimal words.
• ⚠️ She highlights a recent instance where Mike purchased another box truck/18-wheeler without prior discussion, similar to a previous boat purchase, leaving her feeling in her feelings.
• 💍 Selena is concerned about these communication issues as she plans to walk down the aisle and become Mike's wife, emphasizing her desire for a marriage that lasts.

Vulnerability and Past Trauma

• 💔 Selena reflects on meeting Mike during a vulnerable period after losing her brother, Quincy, in 2020.
• 🧠 She admits that in moments of disagreement, she sometimes questions if she made a mistake, despite loving him and not seeing herself with anyone else.
• 🗣️ She acknowledges her own tendency to withdraw and not communicate when she's in her feelings, but stresses the importance of open communication.

Daughters' Perspective on Mike

• ❤️ Selena's daughters express their love for Mike, noting how he helps out a lot and matches their energy.
• 🧩 Despite their affection for Mike, the daughters advise Selena that his presence shouldn't compromise her happiness and that they should work out their problems before marriage.
• ❓ Selena feels she's not getting anywhere with her daughters' input because they adore Mike, leaving her more confused about how to resolve the issues before a potential wedding.

Desire for a Lasting Marriage

• 💍 Selena is determined to ensure that if she gets married this time, it will be "for the long haul" and "till death do us part."
• 🚧 She believes they need to overcome their current communication hump, or there will be no wedding.