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Savage Lovecast Ep. 977: Consensual Non-Consent, Sex Robots, and Navigating Kink

dansavageJuly 22, 202550 min1,522 views
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Consensual Non-Consent and Drugging Fantasies

  • 💡 The episode opens with a discussion on Consensual Non-Consent (CNC), a kink practice where participants agree to specific parameters where consent cannot be withdrawn.
  • ⚠️ A listener asks about exploring a fantasy where her boyfriend wants her to drug him with ambient and have her way with him, including sharing him with friends, after he previously enjoyed a similar experience.
  • ⚖️ Dan Savage advises against this, citing the legal standard that an unconscious person cannot consent, even if consent was given in advance, and warns of potential legal repercussions.
  • 💭 Alternative ways to explore this fantasy are suggested, such as the partner getting extremely high but remaining awake, or friends being involved in a staged scenario.

Navigating Rejection and Consent Culture

  • ❓ A listener expresses frustration with women who give a
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