r/Offmychest: Lottery Winnings, Unconventional Orgasm, Family Secrets, and Relationship Red Flags

Unexpected Physical Response

• 💡 An 18-year-old OP describes experiencing a full-body orgasm solely from kissing her 22-year-old boyfriend, leaving her feeling embarrassed and confused.
• 💬 The experience is compared to the plot of the 1970s adult film "Deep Throat," where a woman's clitoris is depicted as being in her throat.

Lottery Winnings and Betrayal

• 💰 A man reveals he won $750,000 after taxes and kept it secret from everyone except his girlfriend.
• 🚩 His girlfriend's behavior drastically changed, with her planning extravagant trips and pushing for investments, leading him to discover texts revealing she saw him as her "meal ticket."
• 💔 The experience has left him questioning the authenticity of his relationships, highlighting how money can reveal true intentions.

Complex Grief and Freedom

• 🕊️ A woman shares that she doesn't miss her sister, who died a year ago due to a drunk driver, and feels a sense of freedom rather than sadness.
• 🎭 She reveals her sister, perceived as a saint by others, was emotionally abusive, making her life hell behind closed doors.
• 😔 The OP feels guilt for not grieving conventionally but acknowledges sleeping better and breathing easier without her sister's negative influence.

Decades of Unfulfilled Marriage

• 💍 A man's father, influenced by his own unhappy marriage, vowed to only marry after having two biological children with his partner.
• ⏳ Despite being together since high school and having one child (the OP), his parents never married due to fertility issues and the father's rigid conditions.
• 💔 The father's proposal to the OP's mother after nearly 40 years was met with indifference, as she felt they had already spent their lives together.
• 🗣️ The OP confronts his father about the decades of waiting and the underlying trust issues, leading to an argument.

Relationship Red Flags and Differing Perspectives

• 🚩 A woman recounts her boyfriend's horrified reaction to her childhood memory of her uncle helping her with wiping while potty training, calling it "creepy" and "disturbing."
• 🚫 The boyfriend's insistence that her parents were irresponsible and that her perspective is wrong leads to a major conflict, with him labeling her mentality a "red flag."
• 💔 The relationship ends due to this fundamental disagreement, with the boyfriend accusing society of being biased against men and refusing further discussion.