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r/NiceGuys vs. r/NiceGirls: Toxic Encounters and Awkward Rejections

rSlashJanuary 31, 202220 min571,699 views
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The "Nice Guy" Approach to Grief

  • πŸ’” A widower's "nice" co-worker offers condolences by commenting on the deceased husband's wife's "incredible hips" and immediately asking for a date.
  • 🚩 When rejected, the co-worker resorts to insults, calling the woman "just a pretty face" and "not even that pretty," before again offering to bring her food.
  • 🀒 The "nice guy" then compares the woman's grief over her husband to his own grief over a dog, stating they are "pretty much the exact same thing."

Inappropriate Compliments and Unwanted Advances

  • 🧐 A 58-year-old man questions if he was wrong for complimenting a cashier's looks and asking if she'd been on his boats, despite her disgusted reaction.
  • πŸ™… A "nice guy" on Tinder describes himself as a "gentleman" but uses racist and demeaning language towards women.
  • πŸ’” An 18-year-old befriends a new classmate, only to aggressively demand a date and then insult her race when rejected, calling her "lucky to have me" and making racist remarks about her ethnicity.

"Nice Girls" and Their Demands

  • 🚩 A "nice girl" on Tinder seeks a six-figure earner who cooks, cleans, and buys flowers, while also stating she "hates men" and will only introduce her child after marriage.
  • βœ‰οΈ A woman texts her ex-boyfriend's new partner, revealing his past struggles with depression and his use of antidepressants, while also implying she was a better partner.
  • πŸ—£οΈ The ex-girlfriend continues to belittle the new partner, questioning her age, appearance, and career, and suggesting the boyfriend is having a "midlife crisis trophy."

Unsolicited Advances and Rejection

  • πŸ’Œ A secret admirer texts a cosmetology student, complimenting his looks and tattoos, and asking for a date.
  • 🚫 When the student declines due to having a girlfriend, the admirer suggests he be her "sneaky link" and claims she's "big down there."
  • 😀 The admirer then becomes aggressive, insulting the student's girlfriend and insisting he's "way hotter" and that the student would be "lucky to have me."

Defining Unattractive Traits

  • πŸ“ A "nice girl" lists numerous traits she finds unattractive in men, including being a "loud show off," "attention seeking," "virtue signaling," and having "man buns" or "skinny jeans."
  • 🀒 The list also includes more bizarre points like "dragon figurine collections," "open infected wounds," and "eating my leftovers."
  • πŸ™„ The video creator finds the list of unattractive traits to be a strong indicator of the "nice girl's" own ex-boyfriend.
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