Reddit Stories: Family Demands Driver, Boyfriend's Threesome Proposal

New Year's Eve Designated Driver Dispute

• 🎯 OP, a 26-year-old female, refused to be the designated driver for her family's New Year's Eve party for the first time after years of being the default chauffeur.
• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Her family, including her aunt and cousin, pressured her, calling her selfish and accusing her of ruining the night when she insisted on enjoying the party and not being responsible for their rides.
• 🗣️ OP stood her ground, stating she wasn't their chauffeur and had already consumed alcohol, leading her to leave the party early.
• 📱 In an update, OP sent a firm text to the family group chat, asserting her boundaries and announcing she would be taking space from them, subsequently blocking her parents due to their gaslighting.
• 💍 On a positive note, OP's boyfriend proposed to her shortly after the New Year's Eve incident, and she is focusing on building a future with him and her supportive siblings.

Boyfriend's Threesome Proposal After Drugging Incident

• 💊 OP's boyfriend, Mark, and their mutual best friend, John, are pushing for a threesome, which OP feels pressured to agree to, especially after John drugged them with MDMA.
• 😳 John confessed to putting MDMA in a stimulant pill he offered them, leading to a euphoric and empathetic experience where the idea of a threesome with John was casually discussed.
• 💔 OP is conflicted, feeling that her boyfriend is not taking the drugging incident seriously and may have even planned it with John, leading her to doubt their relationship and John's trustworthiness.
• 💬 OP confronted both Mark and John, expressing her anger and hurt over the drugging and the subsequent pressure for a threesome, stating she needs space and trusts neither of them.
• 🤔 OP is now contemplating whether to break up with Mark and if she can ever forgive John, feeling betrayed by those she trusted most and unsure of her next steps.