Reddit Relationship Drama: Polyamory Pressure & OCD Abuse

Polyamory Pressure and Boundary Violations

• 🚩 OP's girlfriend attempted to push him into a relationship with her friend, referred to as Kyle, who made OP uncomfortable with sexual jokes and physical advances.
• 💥 A confrontation occurred when Kyle touched OP's girlfriend's rear end, escalating into a shouting match where OP expressed his disinterest in polyamory.
• 💔 OP's girlfriend insisted he apologize for introducing violence and for forcing Kyle to drive home intoxicated, despite Kyle's actions.
• 🗣️ OP refused to apologize, highlighting Kyle's disrespect and his girlfriend's minimization of the situation, leading to discussions about a potential breakup.
• 💍 OP questioned his girlfriend's commitment to marriage and monogamy, given her desire for polyamory and her friends' lifestyles.

Relationship Breakdown and Aftermath

• 🧊 Following the argument, OP's girlfriend stayed at her cousin's house, and OP initiated a conversation about a breakup.
• 💔 OP eventually broke up with his girlfriend, who then refused to move out, leading to discussions about eviction.
• 🎭 The ex-girlfriend's narrative of the events to her friends and family omitted key details, causing further drama and her anger towards OP for clarifying the situation.
• 🤷‍♀️ OP resisted his ex-girlfriend's attempts at reconciliation and guilt-tripping regarding her living situation and master's degree plans.

New Relationship and OnlyFans Dilemma

• 🤔 OP, after a difficult breakup, began seeing a new woman who has an OnlyFans account, which constitutes about 15% of her income.
• 💍 OP is ready for marriage and children but struggles with the idea of a partner having an OnlyFans, viewing it as sex work and questioning her readiness to settle down.
• 💬 The new partner disagrees, stating she is wife material, leading to an argument about compatibility and boundaries.

OCD and Abusive Behavior in a Relationship

• ⚠️ OP's new story involves a girlfriend with OCD who struggles with germs and requires wearing socks indoors.
• 💔 Her boyfriend deliberately antagonizes her OCD, throwing her clean clothes on the floor and turning off the shower light, knowing it causes her distress.
• 🧦 During an argument, he took her socks away from the shower, a boundary she had set, leading her to break up with him.
• 💬 Commenters agreed that the breakup was not about socks but about the boyfriend's abusive behavior, lack of respect for boundaries, and deliberate targeting of her OCD for amusement.