Reddit AITA: Sister Tries to Kill Dog, Inheritance Dispute, Closet Uncle, Dairy Allergy Nightmare

Sister's Cruelty and Babysitting Dispute

• 🐶 OP's sister is accused of attempting to harm OP's golden retriever, Benny, by locking him in a laundry room for two days without food or water, causing him to tremble and hide.
• 👶 This incident occurred after the sister previously complained about Benny making her "miracle baby" nervous, leading OP to stop bringing the dog over.
• 🍼 Following the dog incident, the sister demanded OP babysit her baby two days a week, which OP refused, leading to accusations of being bitter and selfish.
• ⚖️ OP's mother intervened, calling OP cruel for not helping, but OP questioned why her mother wouldn't babysit instead.

Inheritance Dispute and Family Monsters

• 💰 A 23-year-old OP received a significant inheritance from his deceased grandmother, including her house and investments, while his father received only $100.
• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 OP had been no contact with his father and stepfamily for years due to severe bullying and abuse from his step-siblings, which his father and stepmother ignored.
• 💔 Grandma had previously called CPS on the family due to the abuse, but no significant action was taken.
• 🗣️ After the inheritance, OP's father and stepfamily contacted him, demanding an even split, which OP refused, calling them "monsters" and stating they didn't deserve anything.

Outing a Closeted Uncle

• 🏳️‍🌈 A 25-year-old OP was shamed by his 45-year-old Uncle Dave at a family dinner for being gay, with Dave making homophobic comments.
• 📱 OP, suspecting Dave was gay, retaliated by outing him, mentioning Dave's use of Grinder and a torso tattoo seen in an NSFW picture.
• 😨 Dave was visibly shocked and left the dinner, while OP's aunt and mother questioned his actions.

Severe Dairy Allergy and Bag Checking

• 🥛 OP has a severe dairy allergy requiring Epipens and ER visits if exposed.
• 🚫 Strict household rules were established, prohibiting any dairy products from entering OP's home.
• 🤦‍♀️ Despite understanding the severity and an ER visit from cross-contamination during a previous stay, OP's brother-in-law's girlfriend brought dairy into the house a second time.
• 🏨 As a compromise for a future visit, OP proposed checking the girlfriend's bags, which was met with accusations of invasion of privacy, leading OP to suggest she stay elsewhere if she couldn't comply.