Reddit AITA: Friends Mad I Stopped Kidnapping, Husband Steals Lunch, Friend Skips Bill, Stepson Uninvites Mom, Miscarriage Ruined Birthday

"Kidnapping" for Proposal

• 💡 OP recounts an incident where they intervened with pepper spray and a 911 call when two masked men grabbed their friend Emily, only to discover it was a surprise proposal prank by Emily's boyfriend, Chris.
• ⚠️ Chris and Emily were upset, with Chris claiming OP ruined a significant moment, while Emily suggested OP should have "read the room," despite the apparent reality of the situation.
• 👏 The podcast host sided with OP, stating Chris was lucky not to be shot and that OP acted as an amazing friend, assigning OP zero butthole points and Chris three.

Stolen and Discarded Lunch

• 📌 A wife discovered her husband had taken a frozen meal she was saving, eaten it, and thrown it away without asking, then complained about not having lunch.
• 😠 When offered the wife's saved meal (which turned out to be the same one he'd discarded), the husband became angry, accusing her of setting him up and being unreasonable.
• ⚖️ The host awarded the wife zero butthole points and the husband two, likening his actions to theft.

Unequal Bill Splitting

• 💸 A friend who ordered an appetizer, entree, dessert, and drink suggested splitting the restaurant bill evenly, despite others ordering much less.
• 🙅‍♀️ OP refused to split evenly, stating they only brought enough money for their own order and a tip, which the friend dismissed as being cheap.
• 💔 The friend then passive-aggressively told other friends that OP embarrassed her, leading the host to award OP zero butthole points and the friend one.

Step-Mom Uninvited from Wedding

• 💔 OP describes the shock of being uninvited from her stepson Adam's wedding by Adam and his fiancée Alice, who claimed it was a "family only" event, despite OP being a parental figure for most of Adam's life.
• 🗣️ OP's other children and husband supported her, with the children threatening to boycott the wedding if OP wasn't invited.
• 😂 OP's reaction was to laugh at the ridiculousness of the situation, which Adam demanded an apology for, leading the host to assign OP zero butthole points and Adam and Alice two.

Miscarriage and Birthday Conflict

• 💔 A woman experienced a miscarriage on her husband's 27th birthday, detailing the physical distress and her husband's delayed response, including stopping for beers.
• 😠 When she declined to make his birthday dinner due to her condition, he muttered that the "BS has ruined my birthday" and gave her the silent treatment.
• 🚫 OP called him a disgrace, leading to him locking her out of the bedroom and his mother advising OP to be patient due to his own "loss," which the host found horrifying, awarding OP zero butthole points and the husband 4.5.