Reddit AITA: Demanding $170k/Year, Unforgivable Accusation, Stolen Baby Name, & Ex's Neglect

Financial Demands from In-Laws

• 💰 An OP earns over $170k/year, while her fiancé is a teacher with a trust fund. His parents, who are wealthy, suggested OP quit her job to be a stay-at-home mom.
• 🤝 To protect herself in case of divorce or career loss, OP proposed her in-laws set up an irrevocable trust for her, contributing her gross earnings annually for 35 years.
• 😠 The in-laws reacted negatively, finding her request ridiculous and refusing a compromise that included a prenup.

Unforgivable Accusation Against Husband

• 🎂 During a family gathering for OP's birthday, her 15-year-old stepniece, Kelly, falsely claimed she saw OP's husband's genitals.
• 🤥 Kelly later confessed she lied to impress her friends who had prior intimate experiences.
• 💔 OP reacted harshly, calling Kelly a "disgusting piece of garbage" and stating she would never forgive her or allow her near her family again.
• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 The family took action: Kelly's lie spread at school, her parents moved her out, and OP's parents cut contact, prioritizing the protection of OP's nephew.

Stolen Baby Name Dispute

• 👶 OP and her wife chose a name for their son, but OP's sister-in-law discovered it and used the exact same first, middle, and last name for her own nephew.
• 🤫 OP's brother asked her to remain silent to avoid upsetting his wife, who had a difficult birth.
• 🤫 After waiting six months to avoid legal complications, OP and her wife revealed their son's actual name, which was different from the one initially chosen.
• 😠 OP's brother called her action a "dick move," while OP argued that using their chosen name was also inappropriate, especially considering potential confusion in schools and official records.

Ex-Husband's Neglect and CPS Call

• 💔 OP is in a trial separation from her husband, who has a history of failing to pick up their toddler from daycare on time.
• 🚨 After multiple warnings and late pickups, OP instructed the daycare to call child protective services (CPS) when her ex-husband was an hour late.
• 👮 The ex-husband arrived to find police at the daycare and was furious, calling OP a "cruel mother."
• ⚖️ OP defended her actions, stating her ex-husband's unreliability and lack of backup plans were the root cause, and that she had adjusted her own schedule to prioritize their child.

OCD Roommate Conflict

• 🕍 OP, who is Jewish, asked her non-Jewish roommate if she could hang a mezuzah by their front door.
• 😠 The roommate became upset, demanding the mezuzah be hung perfectly straight, which conflicted with traditional Jewish practice.
• 🛠️ After OP removed the mezuzah, the visible wall repairs also triggered the roommate's OCD.
• 🗣️ OP told her roommate she needed to "get over it," leading to the roommate calling OP the butthole.