Reddit AITA: Brother's Cheating, House Disputes, and Aunt's Bedwetting

Brother's Cheating and Sister-in-Law's Suicide

• 💔 A 23-year-old woman recounts her 33-year-old brother's infidelity during deployment, leading to his wife Jenny's suicide.
• 😔 Jenny, who had sacrificed her career and moved frequently for her husband's military service, was devastated by his affair and demand for divorce.
• 💔 The brother's actions, specifically cheating and the abrupt manner of the divorce, are identified as the cause of Jenny's death, not the divorce itself.
• 🗣️ The OP sided with her brother's children, refusing to reconcile them with him, and expressed her own hatred for him, calling him a "monster."

House Dispute and Impending Divorce

• 🏠 A welder, married for less than a year, is divorcing his wife who was gifted a house by her parents, with no intention of putting him on the paperwork.
• 💰 Despite contributing 50/50 to household expenses, including the mortgage, the husband is leaving with minimal possessions and no equity, as per the prenup.
• 💔 The husband discovered his wife's infidelity with her ex and has initiated divorce proceedings, choosing to stay in Airbnbs and all-inclusive resorts during his time off.
• 🤷 The husband questions why his wife and her family are upset about him leaving without financial contribution, while ignoring her cheating.

Hiding Biological Parenthood

• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 A couple, married for years through an arranged marriage, adopted their first two children.
• 👶 Unexpectedly conceiving a third child, they hid the pregnancy from their families to avoid preferential treatment towards the biological son over the adopted children.
• 👴 The father-in-law expresses disappointment about not having a "proper" grandchild, unaware that the youngest son is biologically his grandson.
• ⚖️ The OP believes hiding the truth is justified to prevent favoritism and hurt feelings, especially given the father's traditional views.

Peanut Allergy and Dating Dealbreaker

• 🥜 A man cancels a third date due to his date's life-threatening peanut allergy, citing his own love for peanuts and peanut butter.
• 🚫 He states he doesn't want to change his diet or habits and would be too nervous about accidentally harming her, despite her suggesting safety precautions.
• 😕 Both the date and the OP's friend are confused and critical of his reasoning, with the date calling him a "massive douche."
• 🤔 The OP defends his decision, arguing that two dates do not imply commitment and that personal preferences, like a love for peanuts, can be dealbreakers.

Aunt's Bedwetting and Retaliation

• ♿ An 18-year-old woman, paralyzed from the chest down, lives with her brother and dealt with an aunt who made invasive comments about her disability and love life.
• 🛏️ The aunt wet the bed during a family reunion, a fact known only to the OP and her brother.
• 💬 During a family lunch, the aunt made a demeaning joke about the OP's boyfriend, prompting the OP to retaliate by revealing the aunt's bedwetting incident.
• ⚖️ The OP feels justified in her response, viewing it as a consequence for the aunt ignoring her boundaries and making inappropriate remarks.