Wedding Ban for Racist "Joke"

• 🎯 OP is marrying her fiancé, Kevin, who is white and cannot grow a beard, a fact OP's mother constantly mocks.
• 🎁 Despite a past apology, OP's mother gifts Kevin a shaving set at a family dinner, intending it as a joke, which deeply humiliates him.
• 🚫 OP demands an apology, but her mother refuses, leading OP to revoke her mother's wedding invitation until she apologizes.
• 🗣️ OP's family calls her unreasonable and disrespectful for this stance, while commenters support her, noting the racist undertones and the hypocrisy of the family's reaction.

Sister's Infertility and Adoption Pressure

• 🤰 OP, 18 and 34 weeks pregnant, faces constant pressure from her 35-year-old sister, who suffers from infertility.
• 👶 The sister demands OP give up her baby for adoption or enter a co-parenting arrangement, stating OP is "abusing her fertility."
• 💔 OP finally tells her sister that her infertility is not OP's problem to solve and refuses to give up her child, leading to family disapproval.
• ⚠️ Commenters validate OP's feelings, advising her to set firm boundaries and warning her not to leave her child alone with the sister.

College Fund Canceled After Cruel Prank

• 💸 OP started a college fund for his 16-year-old niece, who he views as a daughter.
• ✉️ The niece repeatedly sent OP and his wife texts and left envelopes and signs pretending his wife was pregnant, mocking their struggle with infertility.
• 💔 OP discovered the niece was behind the pranks and, feeling deeply hurt and betrayed, canceled the college fund.
• ⚖️ The niece's father argues the punishment is too harsh for a "small mistake" and a "stupid prank," but OP maintains it's a consequence of her cruelty and disrespect.

Fiancé's Desire to Be a Stay-at-Home Wife

• 💍 OP's 33-year-old fiancée wants to be a stay-at-home wife, despite both earning good incomes and being child-free.
• 💰 She argues OP earns significantly more and they could scale back their lifestyle, but OP is uncomfortable being the sole breadwinner.
• 🚩 OP calls her dream "lazy" in a heated argument, leading to her leaving and stating they need to discuss it when he calms down.
• 🤔 OP suspects his fiancée has been deceptive for three years, seeing him as a "ticket to never work again," and advises caution, questioning if they are compatible.