r/AITA: Wife Brainwashed by Therapist, Unfair School Suspension, and Dad's Betrayal

Wife's Therapy and Perceived Abuse

• 💡 OP's wife, after their son's autism diagnosis, began heavily relying on her therapist, adopting "therapy speak" and viewing the therapist as an infallible authority.
• ⚠️ The wife's therapist has labeled OP and their son as emotionally and sexually abusive, and their younger son as physically abusive, based on incidents like canceling a date, disagreeing about finances, and a child's accidental kick.
• 💔 The wife's therapist also suggested that OP's autistic son metaphorically "killed her first baby" by being a "disease that replaced him," a statement OP found particularly disturbing.

Unfair School Suspension

• 🏫 A 13-year-old girl was suspended for an alleged anti-Semitic remark, but the school refused to disclose the exact words, citing the accuser's refusal to repeat them.
• 🗣️ The girl claimed the remark was a misunderstanding during a conversation with a Palestinian friend about his family in Gaza, with another student falsely accusing her.
• ⚖️ After speaking with the Palestinian boy's mother, who corroborated the girl's story, OP reversed the grounding, questioning the school's handling of the situation and the accuser's motives.

Paternity Revelation and Parental Neglect

• 💔 A 16-year-old girl discovered her father is not her biological father after years of feeling neglected and treated differently compared to her siblings.
• 👨‍👧 Her father, who is not her biological dad, admitted she could stay but wanted his own child, leading to her sister being born shortly after.
• 🚫 The non-biological father stated she could not call him "Dad" anymore, never loved her, and demanded she leave at 18, while her mother's primary concern was identifying who revealed the secret.
• 💸 The girl also found out she has no college savings, unlike her siblings, highlighting further parental favoritism and neglect.