r/AITA: Towed Cars, Stolen Property, Peanut Allergies, and Broken iPhones

Parking Dispute and Towing

• 🏠 OP discovered three vehicles parked in their newly built garage and, after contacting the contractor, had them towed.
• 😠 Neighbors and the vehicle owners confronted OP, demanding payment for the towing costs and accusing OP of being a "butthole" for not being more neighborly.
• ⚖️ OP defended their actions, stating that parking in a private garage without permission is unacceptable.

Ex-Wife's Property Disputes

• 📱 OP's ex-wife repeatedly confiscated personal property (phone, tools, iPod) given to their children, refusing to return them.
• 🚓 After repeated refusals, OP contacted the police, leading to the return of the items.
• 🗣️ The ex-wife was angered by the police involvement, calling OP spiteful, while OP argued it was about theft.

Roommate's Food Theft and Allergic Reaction

• 🚫 OP's roommate repeatedly stole food from OP's locked mini-fridge and meal-prepped meals.
• 🥜 OP made Pad Thai with peanut oil and peanuts, unaware their roommate had a severe peanut allergy.
• 🏥 The roommate suffered an allergic reaction requiring ER treatment, leading to accusations from the roommate and her friends.
• 🤷 OP questioned if they were the butthole for making their own food, despite the roommate's theft and the resulting allergic reaction.

Baby's Mishaps and Financial Demands

• 👶 OP warned a friend that their 6-month-old son would grab valuables like sunglasses and phones.
• 💸 The friend, Jean, ignored the warnings, and the baby grabbed her Gucci sunglasses, causing them to break, and then hit her iPhone, breaking it.
• 💰 Jean demanded OP pay $2,300 for the damaged items, which OP refused, citing the ignored warnings and financial strain.

Stepbrother's Betrayal and Plea for Help

• 🏳️‍🌈 OP was disowned by their homophobic family at 14 after being outed by their stepbrother, Peter.
• 💔 Years later, Peter, also gay and disowned, reached out for help from OP and their husband.
• 🚫 OP refused to help Peter due to the past trauma and betrayal, despite some friends suggesting it's a community responsibility.