r/AITA: Parents Adopted My Bully, Husband Left for a Cheeseburger, and PTSD Needs

Bullying and Parental Neglect

• 💡 OP, a 25-year-old pregnant woman, cut off contact with her estranged parents after they ignored her bullying by her sister's friend, Luna, for years.
• 🎯 Despite knowing Luna's severe bullying, OP's parents excused it, even letting Luna move in when OP was 12, leading OP to live with her grandparents.
• 💔 OP's parents are now trying to re-enter her life, claiming Luna is no longer an issue, but OP maintains firm boundaries.

Marriage and Family Boundaries

• 💔 A 38-year-old man ended his 5-year marriage after his wife's family repeatedly violated his boundaries, including uninvited visits and using personal spaces.
• 🏠 The situation escalated when the wife's parents, going through a divorce, moved in, leading to further invasion of privacy and disrespect for the OP's belongings.
• 🚗 The final straw was finding his wife's brother blocking the driveway and lounging on the couch, prompting OP to leave and initiate divorce proceedings.

Medical Procedure and Husband's Neglect

• 🏥 A woman undergoing a lumpectomy for cancer was abandoned by her husband, who left the hospital and went to a bar for a burger.
• 😔 She endured the surgery and recovery alone, without any reassurance from her husband, who eventually returned with a dozen roses.
• 💔 The OP rejected the roses and vowed never to let him accompany her to a medical procedure again, highlighting his extreme insensitivity.

PTSD and Family Visits

• 🏠 A 22-year-old man refused to let his family stay at his apartment due to their inability to accommodate his girlfriend's severe PTSD needs.
• 🔒 The girlfriend requires strict security measures, including locked doors and windows, and a controlled environment to sleep, which his family previously failed to provide.
• ✈️ Despite the past disaster and the girlfriend's significant distress, the family insists on visiting and dismisses their needs as dramatic, suggesting the girlfriend stay elsewhere.