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Raised in a Cult with an Arranged Marriage | r/EntitledParents

rSlashOctober 5, 201920 min2,252,384 views
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Neighborly Disputes and Cultish Behavior

  • ๐Ÿ  A neighbor's family exhibited increasingly strange behavior, including anger over party invitations and demands to share the OP's dog.
  • ๐Ÿš— The situation escalated when their child damaged the OP's car, and the parents reacted defensively, telling the OP to call the police.

The Wrong Address Incident

  • ๐Ÿšš A new family attempted to move into the OP's house, mistaking it for their assigned residence.
  • ๐Ÿก The woman became aggressive, accusing the OP of being a liar and a thief, despite living there for four years.
  • ๐Ÿ‘ฎ Police were called, and it was confirmed the family had the wrong address, leading to their departure.
  • ๐Ÿ› ๏ธ The husband later apologized for his wife's actions and offered to pay for damages to the OP's property.

Life in a Strict Cult

  • โ›“๏ธ The OP describes growing up in a cult where women were considered property and children were subservient to parents.
  • ๐Ÿ’ Parents arranged a marriage for the OP with a boy from the cult, which the OP initially resisted but eventually relented to.
  • ๐Ÿ’ผ The OP accepted a job offer as a church receptionist, but the suitor's family disapproved, leading to the cancellation of the courtship.

A Second Chance and Demands

  • ๐Ÿ’Œ Two years later, the same suitor contacted the OP, confessing his love and seeking to rekindle the courtship.
  • โš–๏ธ A tense meeting with both families involved arguments and ultimatums, with the suitor's father being particularly aggressive.
  • ๐Ÿ’” The OP felt pressured and confused, especially when the suitor demanded she cease contact with all other male friends.

Breaking Free from Cult Control

  • ๐Ÿ“ž The suitor's mother accused the OP of cheating and questioned her need for a week to pray about marriage, implying she already knew her answer.
  • ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ The OP firmly rejected the suitor and his family, stating she would not marry someone she didn't love.
  • โค๏ธ Ultimately, the OP married a man outside the cult who taught her to think for herself, and they have been happily married for ten years with three sons.
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