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Online Brides: Lisa Ling Investigates International Marriage Tours in Colombia

OWNFebruary 10, 202141 min1,850,286 views
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The Marriage Tour Industry

  • 🌍 The episode explores the business of international marriage tours, specifically focusing on American men traveling to Barranquilla, Colombia, to find wives.
  • 🤝 Services like A.F.A. (A Foreign Affair) organize these "romance" or "marriage tours" for a few thousand dollars, introducing men to foreign women.
  • 💔 While advertised as romance tours, the episode questions whether these arrangements are truly about love or a transaction, with some men preferring not to reveal their identities.

American Men's Motivations

  • 💔 David, a 49-year-old civil designer, shares his past two failed marriages and dissatisfaction with dating in America, where he feels many people seek casual hookups.
  • ✈️ He sees the marriage tour as a way to meet women who are family-oriented and loyal, finding Colombian women to be warm and welcoming.
  • 🗣️ Communication barriers are present, with interpreters facilitating interactions, highlighting the challenges and unique dynamics of these tours.

Colombian Women's Perspectives

  • 👩‍⚕️ Edna, a 21-year-old nurse, is among the hundreds of Colombian women hoping to find a husband through these tours.
  • 💔 Karen, a 25-year-old, shares a cautionary tale of being deceived by an American man who was already married, leading to a difficult experience.
  • 🌟 Dayana, living in poverty, views marrying an American as a potential escape to a better life, valuing American men for their perceived respect and faithfulness.
  • 👩‍💼 Maria Cristina, a successful businesswoman, seeks a gentlemanly and respectful partner, emphasizing interior beauty over physical appearance and desiring a mature relationship.

The Social Event and Developing Connections

  • 👥 At A.F.A. social events, 10 American men meet hundreds of Colombian women in a structured, rotating format.
  • 💬 Despite language barriers, both men and women make genuine efforts to connect, with some men like David showing interest in women like Maria Cristina.
  • ❤️ David and Maria Cristina develop a rapid connection, holding hands and kissing within their first day, with David expressing strong feelings and considering her a potential life partner.

Hopes, Risks, and Uncertain Futures

  • 💍 While A.F.A. reports many engagements, the long-term success rate of marriages resulting from these tours remains unclear.
  • 🤔 The episode highlights the significant risks involved for both men and women, with dreams of love and a better life potentially leading to disappointment.
  • 🙏 Karen continues to hope for a foreign husband, keeping her profile online, while David and Maria Cristina's budding relationship faces the challenge of distance and cultural differences, leaving the ultimate outcome uncertain.
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Online BridesMarriage ToursInternational DatingColombiaBarranquillaA.F.A.Romance ToursMail-Order BridesCross-Cultural RelationshipsDating AgenciesLoveMarriageFamily ValuesImmigration
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