Man Sends Spreadsheet to Reimburse Dates; Friend Backs Out of Trip Over Air Mattress

Date Reimbursement Spreadsheet

• 💡 A woman, 23, was pursued by a man, 32, for over a month, with him initiating most plans and dates.
• 💸 Unexpectedly, he sent her an Excel spreadsheet detailing date costs totaling $359.95, requesting reimbursement.
• ⚠️ The spreadsheet included items like "Sigs, Cassiss, Cheekies, Colony Grill, Uber, Google, Saltwater Hippie movie tickets, Stella's Eds, Central Cigar," and a pair of $200 Hoka shoes.
• 💬 He later clarified he wanted $100 for $500 worth of expenses, citing money troubles and working two jobs.
• 🤝 The woman paid the $100 and also reimbursed him for $90 she owed to a mutual friend.
• 💔 She ultimately blocked him, regretting paying but seeing it as the cost of avoiding a larger issue.

Road Trip Sleeping Arrangements

• 🚗 A group of four friends planned a last-minute mountain trip, but the only available Airbnb had one bedroom, a pullout couch, and an air mattress.
• 👑 The couple in the group claimed the bedroom, leaving the air mattress for the OP (27F) and her male friend Alex (26M), who was recovering from an injury.
• 😠 OP, the only driver and the one with work the next day, backed out due to the unfair sleeping arrangement and driving burden.
• 🗣️ The friend Jay called OP a "party pooper" and "selfish" for not wanting to sleep on an air mattress.

Trip Disasters and Friendships

• ⏳ The group started their trip late due to the others' tardiness, missed their shuttle to the gondola after a long lunch, and ended up just getting drinks.
• 🛋️ The friends stayed up late drinking on the couch (OP's designated bed), preventing OP from sleeping until 2 a.m.
• 🧹 OP ended up cleaning the Airbnb and waking her friends to check out on time, while they had done virtually nothing on the trip.
• 🚫 No one paid OP back for the Airbnb, gas, or tickets, leading OP to decide she would no longer associate with these friends.

Elevator Antics and Public Embarrassment

• 🕺 For two years, an office worker used an empty elevator as a private space for dancing, posing, and singing.
• 😳 One day, while posing in the elevator mirror, the doors opened to reveal a security clerk who had witnessed his antics.
• 🗣️ The clerk later called out, "Brah, big man on campus," confirming he had seen the private performance.
• 😅 The incident led the OP to decide he would avoid working from the office until the clerk retired.