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Kate Kennedy on Her Porn Career, BDSM, and Transition to Stand-Up

Ryan SicklerOctober 27, 20201h 11min91,810 views
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Early Life and Unexpected Career Path

  • 💡 Kate Kennedy shares that she didn't get into grad school, which unexpectedly led her into the adult film industry.
  • 🎯 Her parents, an engineer and a teacher, were not initially supportive and suggested therapy, even considering a sex addicts rehab for her.
  • 🔑 Despite initial parental disapproval, therapy helped foster understanding, though they never fully embraced her career choice.

Entry into the Adult Industry

  • 🚀 Kennedy began her career at 23, working behind the scenes as a PA and marketing manager for an intense BDSM porn studio in Portland.
  • 🛠️ Her role involved building elaborate rigs for scenes, describing the work as "grown-up Tinker Toys" in a rural Oregon setting.
  • 🎬 After six months, she transitioned to performing, starting with rope bondage and BDSM-focused scenes rather than traditional ones.

Extreme Scenes and Personal Fascination

  • ⛓️ Kennedy recounts her first scene involving being tied up and hung upside down by her ankles for seven and a half minutes, a record at the time.
  • 🌊 She also describes being waterboarded during a sex scene, an intense experience that she found exhilarating.
  • 🧠 Her fascination with extreme sensation and pushing bodily limits stemmed from childhood, leading her to attend BDSM conventions and classes.

Escorting and a New York Romance

  • 💔 While working as an escort, Kennedy fell in love during a two-week tour in New York, leading her to quit escorting to pursue the relationship.
  • 💸 This decision cost her an estimated $30,000 in lost earnings, a choice she sometimes regrets but ultimately values as an adventure.
  • 🤝 She maintained a positive relationship with the man, who was sex-work positive and remained a good friend.

Worst and Best On-Set Experiences

  • 🤢 Her worst experience involved a Nuru massage scene with a co-star who had poor hygiene, making the shoot nauseating and leading to her being added to a "no-list."
  • 🇫🇷 The best experience was a scene with Manuel Ferreira for the "Raw" series, praising his skill, physique, and the casual, intimate atmosphere.
  • 🍆 She discusses handling a 12-13 inch penis on camera, noting that while impressive for content, it's not practical for everyday intimacy.

Transition to Stand-Up Comedy

  • 🎤 Kennedy transitioned to stand-up comedy after her anal scene was canceled last minute, leading her to open for Jamie Kennedy with only 24 hours to prepare.
  • 🎭 She found stand-up significantly more nerve-wracking than performing in porn, but it led to a six-month booking at the Comedy Store.
  • 🚀 COVID-19 accelerated her retirement from porn, allowing her to focus on stand-up and other creative pursuits, leveraging OnlyFans for stable income.

Reflections and Advice

  • 🎓 Kennedy advises her 16-year-old self to reconsider immediate college enrollment, focusing instead on having adventures and living a life worth writing about.
  • 🌟 She feels lucky to have pursued her twenties with adventures and creative exploration, fulfilling a desire to live an interesting life.
  • 🎤 She continues to pursue stand-up and hosts a podcast, "The Kennedy Assassination," which is set to return.
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