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John Feitelberg on Failing College, Boarding School, and Finding His Place | HoneyDew Podcast #198

Ryan SicklerOctober 11, 20221h 4min50,093 views
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The HoneyDew Concept and John Feitelberg's Intro

  • 💡 The podcast's name, "HoneyDew," stems from the host's observation that honeydew melon is often left uneaten in fruit cups, symbolizing perfectly good things being tossed aside.
  • 🎯 This concept of "highlighting the lowlights" is central to the show, aiming to uncover the stories behind the storytellers.
  • 🎤 John Feitelberg, host of KFC Radio, expresses nervousness about being on the show, contrasting it with his usual role as a "third mic" on a two-man show.

Childhood, Family, and Early Struggles

  • 🏡 Feitelberg hails from Fall River, Massachusetts, and is the oldest of four siblings, with parents who met in high school and have been married for a long time.
  • 🧠 Despite a happy home, he describes having a "birthright" type of depression, suggesting a predisposition rather than a reaction to hardship.
  • 🏥 A severe E. coli infection in fifth grade, potentially from undercooked meat his mother prepared, led to a two-week hospital stay over Christmas.
  • 🏫 He developed a pattern of skipping school on Mondays in second grade, which escalated to truancy police involvement due to his mother's advocacy for "mental health days."

Academic and Personal Detours

  • 🎓 Feitelberg famously failed out of seven colleges in four years, a period he humorously refers to as a "cheat" due to the compressed timeline.
  • 🏫 He attended boarding school as a day student, an experience he fondly recalls as his "glory days" where he felt most himself.
  • ✝️ The boarding school's Catholic affiliation and religious instruction did not resonate with him, though he learned valuable lessons in routine.
  • 💔 A period of intense stress and anxiety, stemming from a difficult relationship, led to a diagnosis of "trench mouth," a condition linked to psychological distress rather than bacteria.

Career and Future Aspirations

  • ✍️ Feitelberg began his career as an intern for KFC (Kevin Clancy) at Barstool Sports, eventually becoming one of its earliest employees.
  • 🏞️ He expresses a desire to eventually "disappear" and live a quiet life in a small town in Vermont, writing for a local paper and skiing.
  • 📱 The constant need to produce content and deal with online comments wears on him, despite enjoying his work and colleagues.
  • 👨‍👦 While not actively planning for fatherhood, he is excited to become an uncle for the first time, believing he might be a better uncle than a father due to his current self-centered nature.

Defining Moments and Advice

  • 🏈 The phrase "Saturdays are for the boys" originated from an encounter in a bar and became a viral sensation, leading to various adventurous videos.
  • 🎂 The "Big Man Bakes" story illustrates how a simple act of kindness, baking a cake for a crush, led to a successful cupcake business.
  • 👴 Feitelberg advises his 16-year-old self to spend more time with his grandfather, regretting not prioritizing family over friends during his youth.
  • 🧘 He acknowledges enjoying his current life and having fun but admits he is not currently happy with life in a deeper sense, attributing this to his self-centeredness and desire for personal freedom.
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