Husband's Hair Obsession & Ex's Frozen Embryos | Reddit AITA Stories

Husband's Hair Anxiety

• 👶 OP's husband exhibits extreme anxiety over her long hair potentially harming their 4-month-old daughter, constantly reminding her to be careful.
• 💡 The husband's fear centers on the baby ingesting hair, requiring surgery or worse, a concern OP finds excessive.
• 🗣️ Commenters suggest the husband's behavior stems from anxiety, possibly PPA, and recommend seeking professional medical advice.
• 📱 OP's husband saw the Reddit post, became angry, but eventually stopped obsessing over her hair, though OP plans to address his anxiety further.

Ex's Frozen Embryos Dilemma

• 💔 A wife (OP) is devastated when her husband reveals his ex-partner plans to use frozen embryos they created years ago, following the recent tragic death of their 6-year-old son.
• 🤰 The husband initially expressed willingness to be a sperm donor for his ex, causing significant distress to OP, who was also trying to conceive with him.
• 🤝 After initial shock and anger, the couple agreed to seek couples counseling focused on grief and child loss, and the husband acknowledged his misplaced desires.
• ⚠️ A later update reveals the husband had not been truthful; the ex was using previously frozen embryos, not a new donation, and is now pregnant, leading OP to feel betrayed and consider divorce.
• 💔 The husband admitted to compartmentalizing and not wanting to lose OP, but his actions are seen as a betrayal, especially given the timing and lack of full disclosure.
• ⚖️ OP is now leaning towards divorce, feeling unable to continue as a wife or stepmom after the lies and betrayal, while others question the ex-partner's motives and the husband's actions.