DeVon Franklin & Meagan Good on "The Wait" and Authentic Love
OWNAugust 26, 202042 min247,659 views
52 connectionsΒ·40 entities in this videoβThe Principle of "The Wait"
- π‘ DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good advocate for celibacy until marriage as a core principle for building authentic love and happiness.
- π They explain that "The Wait" is about delaying instant gratification in relationships to get what you truly want in life and become the person you aspire to be.
- π― This principle is detailed in their New York Times bestselling book, "The Wait," which challenges the cultural norm of instant gratification.
Personal Journeys to Faith and Celibacy
- π Meagan Good shares her journey of healing from past relationships and focusing on God, which led her to a spiritual calling about DeVon being her husband.
- π DeVon Franklin explains his decade-long practice of celibacy, stemming from a desire to align his public and private self after struggling with hypocrisy in his youth.
- π¬ Both emphasize that their decisions were guided by faith and divine timing, even when it seemed counter to societal expectations.
"The Wait" Beyond Sex
- π§ The couple asserts that practicing delayed gratification, particularly with sex, unlocks the power of patience and discipline that permeates all areas of life, including career.
- π Meagan notes that this intentionality transformed her career perception, allowing her to move beyond playing the "sexy girl" roles.
- π― DeVon found that practicing "The Wait" helped him manage his ambitious career with greater calm, clarity, and focus.
Authentic Love and God's Timetable
- β€οΈ Authentic love, for Meagan, means acceptance and being loved for who you are, a need stemming from her upbringing.
- β³ DeVon and Meagan discuss God's timetable, emphasizing that rushing desires can be destructive, and trusting the divine plan is crucial.
- π§© They highlight that the solution to manipulative behavior in relationships is vulnerability and accountability, rather than recklessness.
The Value of Waiting
- β The couple argues that "The Wait" is not anti-sex but a method to build a strong foundation based on emotional, spiritual, and personal connection before physical intimacy.
- π They share that their wedding night was special because it was a rediscovery of innocence and intimacy with the person they married.
- π The intention behind sharing their story is to offer hope to others navigating the complexities of love and relationships, encouraging them to preserve their integrity.
Trusting Divine Plans
- π The Super Soul Short segment features Walt and Annie Manis, who trusted God's plan for a daughter named Chloe, even through years of infertility.
- π€ Their story illustrates how faith and divine timing can lead to miraculous outcomes, such as adoption and the fulfillment of long-held promises.
- β¨ They emphasize that God's plans are not random but meticulously orchestrated, bringing hope and encouragement to others through their journey.
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The WaitCelibacyFaithAuthentic LoveDivine TimingDelayed GratificationPatienceDisciplineRelationshipsMarriageSpiritual GrowthInfertilityAdoptionGod's Plan
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