David Cross on His Absentee Father, Anxiety, and Parenting Fears | The HoneyDew Podcast
Ryan SicklerFebruary 28, 20231h 24min83,614 views
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- 👶 David Cross recounts a childhood marked by frequent moves due to his father's frequent job losses and pathological lying.
- 💔 His father, who was originally from England, had a history of infidelity and abandonment, leaving David's mother with significant debt and responsibilities.
- 🏠 The family experienced periods of living with David's unsupportive grandmother and even eviction from their apartment, highlighting the instability caused by his father's actions.
- ✈️ David details a particularly egregious instance where his father convinced him to secretly leave Georgia with him, pawning David's guitar and necklace for gas money to escape creditors.
Navigating Fatherhood and Generational Fears
- 👨👧 Despite his own traumatic upbringing, David expresses a deep-seated fear of repeating his father's patterns as a parent.
- 🧠 He discusses how this fear was at the forefront of his decision-making regarding family and parenting, leading to overcorrection and intense guilt.
- 🎢 David shares an anecdote about his daughter's reaction to his prolonged absence during a European tour, which served as a wake-up call about his parenting approach.
- 🎮 He reflects on how his anxiety manifests, particularly in stressful situations like getting his daughter to school on time, and his decision to seek psychiatric help and medication again.
Personal Struggles with Anxiety and Self-Perception
- 😟 David describes a lifelong struggle with anxiety, which he initially mistook for depression, experiencing significant episodes in his youth.
- 🗣️ He recounts his reluctance to seek therapy, viewing it as an admission of weakness, but found it to be a life-saving experience.
- 💊 A psychiatrist diagnosed him with anxiety, a revelation that helped him understand many of his past behaviors and struggles.
- ⚖️ He admits to overcorrecting in his parenting due to the fear of repeating his father's mistakes, leading to guilt over not being present enough.
Comedy Career and Personal Reflections
- 🎤 David is embarking on a new tour, "Worst Daddy in the World Tour," starting March 2nd, with dates available on his website.
- 🎙️ He expresses appreciation for the podcast format, allowing for genuine conversations unlike more restrictive media appearances.
- 🤔 When asked for advice to his 16-year-old self, David emphasizes patience, picking battles, honesty, and believing in oneself slightly less due to his youthful cockiness.
- 🌟 He reflects on his career choices, from "Mr. Show" to "Arrested Development," and the unique connection he has with his audience through podcasts.
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