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Boyfriend Abandoned Me to a Rabid Dog & Other Relationship Disasters

rSlashMay 30, 202514 min152,655 views
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Agoraphobia and Isolation

  • 🏠 A 35-year-old man describes his wife's extreme isolation since the start of COVID-19, leading to missed family events and job loss.
  • 🧠 He suspects her fear of leaving the house is agoraphobia, a mental illness, and feels enabling her behavior has made it worse.
  • 🗣️ Attempts by family to persuade her have resulted in arguments, and OP is considering leaving the relationship for her to get professional help.

Fiancé's Disturbing Post-Mortem Collection

  • 💔 A 24-year-old woman discovered her fiancé collects hundreds of photos and videos of dead bodies, with explicitly sexual and romantic undertones.
  • 🖼️ The collection includes organized playlists of funerals and autopsies, with titles like "dead beauties" and bookmarked pages of deceased individuals.
  • 🤔 While he has spoken of finding beauty and peace in death due to past losses, OP is deeply disturbed and unsure how to confront him about this fetish.

Fiancé's Apparent Racial Discomfort

  • 🚶‍♀️ A Black Caribbean woman and her white Canadian fiancé moved to a predominantly white town, where she experiences intense staring and discomfort.
  • 🚗 Her fiancé has started suggesting they separate during outings, which she believes is due to his discomfort with being seen with her in public, fearing judgment from his new, all-white workplace.
  • 💔 She feels this behavior makes her self-conscious and alone, questioning if this is grounds for a breakup, especially as he is a stepfather to her Black child.

Dog Attack and Boyfriend's Abandonment

  • 🐶 A woman was badly bitten on the arm by a neighbor's pitbull while leaving her boyfriend's sister's house.
  • 🏃‍♂️ Her boyfriend, despite being present, allegedly freaked out, was scared of blood, and ran inside to get his brother-in-law, leaving her alone with the dog for five minutes.
  • 💔 She is questioning her feelings for her boyfriend, unable to reconcile his instinct to run away in an emergency with their otherwise healthy three-year relationship and recent move-in.
  • 🗣️ The narrator emphasizes that while not everyone is an action hero, the expectation is for a partner to at least try to help and not abandon someone in a dangerous situation.
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Relationship AdviceAgoraphobiaMental IllnessIsolationFetishPost-Mortem CollectionConfrontationRacial DiscomfortRacismDog AttackEmergency ResponseAbandonmentBreakup Advice
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