AITA? Wife's Lotto Winnings, Cousin's Wealth, Brother's Foreclosure, and Daughter's Baby Shower

Lotto Winnings Dispute

• 💡 OP's wife won a lottery prize sufficient to pay off their mortgage, leading OP to expect they could both cut back work hours.
• ⚠️ The wife declared she was quitting her job, stating the winnings were hers alone, escalating the conflict.
• ⚖️ OP threatened divorce, demanding half the winnings, which are under both their names, to which the wife reacted with accusations of being a gold digger.
• 💰 The estimated winnings were between $800k and $1.5 million, not enough for the wife to live on without working.

Cousin's Unrevealed Wealth

• 📌 OP's wife is unaware of his cousin's significant wealth, which includes a large farm and substantial lottery winnings used for charity and community projects.
• 🤦‍♀️ The wife became upset, feeling embarrassed that OP hadn't disclosed the cousin's wealth, especially after attending a wedding at the cousin's property.
• 🗣️ OP told his wife she embarrassed herself and should stop treating people as if they are poor, leading to an argument.

Brother's Foreclosure and Housing Request

• 🏠 OP's brother and his family lost their home due to financial mismanagement and asked to stay with OP for a few months.
• 🚫 OP refused, citing the house's small size, need for his home office, desire for peace, and concerns about the duration of their stay.
• 🤝 OP offered to pay for a hotel for two weeks and help find an apartment, but the brother refused and moved in with their parents instead.
• 📱 OP is receiving criticism from extended family for not housing his brother's family.

Daughter's Baby Shower Incident

• 💔 OP's daughter, who previously experienced a stillbirth, was holding a baby shower for her new baby girl.
• 🗣️ OP's sister-in-law, Rachel, made disparaging remarks about the shower and then loudly accused OP of