AITA? Sister Demands Wedding Repayment 5 Years Later & Doctor Suspects Gold Digger Girlfriend

Sister's Wedding Debt Dispute

• 💡 OP is seeking validation for expecting her sister to repay a significant portion of her wedding costs, which OP covered 5 years prior.
• 💰 The sister initially agreed to repay OP once she was financially stable but later dismissed the debt as a gift, causing ongoing frustration.
• 🎯 When the sister requested help with a down payment for a house, OP offered assistance only after the wedding debt was settled, leading to conflict.
• 🗣️ Community comments generally supported OP, advising her to stand firm and suggesting that the sister's financial behavior indicates a pattern of taking advantage.
• ✅ An update revealed the sister's brother-in-law apologized and acknowledged OP's contribution, leading to a partial repayment from the sister.
• 📣 The sister then posted a passive-aggressive social media message, which OP interpreted as a sign of her own standing up for herself.

Doctor's Suspicions About Girlfriend

• 🩺 A 33-year-old male doctor, OP, is questioning his 5-month relationship with his 25-year-old girlfriend.
• 💬 The girlfriend frequently boasts about his profession as a doctor and hints strongly at marriage and children, calling him "the man I will spend my life with."
• 🚩 OP suspects she may be a gold digger due to her boasting, rapid progression of the relationship (moving in after 3 months), lack of shared interests, and her desire to be a stay-at-home mom without contributing financially.
• 🏠 OP's girlfriend moved in after 3 months and does not contribute to household expenses, relying on OP for bills, furniture, and appliances.
• 💔 OP confronted his girlfriend about his concerns, her desire for immediate marriage, and his need for a prenup, leading to a breakup.
• 🏡 Despite the breakup, OP has agreed to help her find an apartment and cover expenses for a month, though he plans to serve her an eviction notice and eventually move to no contact.
• 🤔 The situation sparked debate among commenters, with some agreeing with OP's assessment of a gold digger, while others suggested OP might be insecure or have issues with setting boundaries.