AITA: Girlfriend Demands House Deed, Open Relationship Chaos, Passport Drama, and In-Law Conflicts

Financial Disputes and Relationship Trust

• 🏠 OP is questioning whether they are the butthole for not immediately adding their girlfriend to the deed of a $1 million house they purchased, as the girlfriend did not contribute to the down payment.
• 🗣️ The girlfriend's family is pressuring OP, stating that not adding her to the deed signifies a lack of trust and could end the relationship.
• 💡 OP feels conflicted, as they trust their girlfriend but acknowledge recent relationship strain due to differing views with her family.

Family Dynamics and Wedding Exclusions

• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 An OP recounts how their parents enabled their brother's bullying behavior, leading to the sister being excluded from her own wedding by her brother and parents.
• 💔 The sister moved far away to escape the bullying and has limited contact with her parents, who view her choices as abandonment.
• 🗣️ OP defended their sister to their parents, stating they were poor parents and didn't deserve to walk her down the aisle, causing family rifts.

Open Relationship Fallout

• 💔 An OP agreed to an open relationship with their boyfriend, but he became enraged when he discovered OP was actively dating and sleeping with others while he had limited success.
• 📱 The boyfriend, who had intended to leave OP for a colleague, was upset when OP suggested ending the relationship or taking a break after his failed attempts at dating others.
• ⚖️ OP questions if they are in the wrong for suggesting a breakup when the boyfriend initiated the open relationship dynamic.

Passport Revocation and Travel Disputes

• ✈️ An OP is questioned about not informing their ex-husband that his passport was revoked due to unpaid child support, causing him to miss a flight to join them on a trip with their children.
• 📜 OP had a notarized agreement allowing them to travel with the children, and the ex-husband's attempt to use his revoked passport and threaten accusations of kidnapping were unsuccessful.
• 👨‍👦 The ex-husband's family and some extended family members believe OP was cruel for not giving him a heads-up about his passport status.

In-Law Disrespect and Parental Mockery

• 👶 After OP gave birth, their in-laws mocked OP's parents for crying during an emotional goodbye, calling them dramatic.
• 😠 OP confronted their in-laws, but their husband later stated OP overreacted, despite the in-laws' minimal contact during OP's postpartum period.
• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 OP feels their husband and in-laws are disrespectful towards their family.

Friend's Job Loss Due to Deception

• ❓ An OP is asking if they are the butthole for getting their friend fired after lying about covering a work shift.
• 🤥 The friend lied to her manager about a family emergency and claimed OP would cover her shift, but OP told the truth when contacted by their manager.
• 🤷‍♀️ OP's friend is now upset, accusing OP of throwing her under the bus, but OP maintains the friend caused her own termination through deceit.