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Put a Ring on It S4E4: New Couples, Exes, and Relationship Challenges

OWNFebruary 5, 202541 min31,749 views
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New Couple Joins the Process

  • 💖 Jasmine and Zay, together for three years, join the show seeking to address Zay's boundary issues and Jasmine's desire for marriage.
  • 💡 Their first date was in Cancun, and they describe their relationship as spontaneous, adventurous, and romantic, with both being entrepreneurs.
  • ⚠️ Zay admits to having a 'Loki' persona when drinking, which has led to boundary issues, and Jasmine expresses nervousness about Zay dating other women.

OG Couples Face Their Exes

  • 💔 Catherine and Ricky are challenged to confront issues from their past by dating their exes.
  • 🗣️ Ricky met with his ex-wife, Chelsea, to discuss co-parenting and boundaries, acknowledging Catherine's frustration.
  • 🚧 Catherine went on a date with her ex-boyfriend, Corey, which brought up trust and security issues related to his child's mother.
  • 💬 Jasha and Joya privately discussed how past relationships affect their current one, with Jasha realizing his controlling behavior was creating distance.

First Dates and New Dynamics

  • 💑 Jasmine goes on a date with Jeremy, a personal trainer and promoter, who also works as a "naked chef," raising red flags for Jasmine due to his proximity to multiple women.
  • 🍸 Britney, a CEO, dates Zay, and they bond over scents and candles, with Britney naming a candle "Experience with an Ex," which concerns Joya.
  • 🍽️ Ricky goes on a second date with Sheila, where she feeds him, a gesture Catherine finds potentially disrespectful given Ricky's past actions.
  • 😬 Catherine feels confused by Ricky's actions, questioning his commitment and decision-making.

Relationship Challenges and Growth

  • 🤝 Dr. Stacii emphasizes that relationship issues don't disappear and must be addressed.
  • 🚧 Jasmine and Zay discuss Zay's friends, particularly an incident where a friend threatened to slap Jasmine, highlighting a lack of boundaries and Zay's struggle to prioritize Jasmine over his friends.
  • 💔 Joya expresses her feelings of not being prioritized and feeling like a joke when Zay's friends disrespect her.
  • 🤔 Ricky and Catherine discuss their differing perspectives on intimacy and actions, with Catherine feeling hurt by Ricky's acceptance of Sheila feeding him.
  • 🌟 Dr. Stacii encourages honesty and commitment, reminding the couples that the goal is to find clarity on whether to put a ring on it or move on.
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