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Family or Fiancé S3 E8: Brijet & Andre's Relationship Tested

OWNFebruary 5, 202540 min241,750 views
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Relationship Beginnings and Concerns

  • 💍 Brijet and Andre met on Instagram and began a courtship, deciding to get married after only three months.
  • ✈️ They live long-distance, with Brijet in California and Andre in St. Louis, Missouri, maintaining their connection through daily phone calls.
  • 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Brijet's family expresses concern that she has changed significantly since starting the relationship and worry she has lost herself and her values.

Navigating Family Dynamics and Values

  • ✝️ Brijet was raised in a Christian household and committed to abstinence until marriage, a value Andre agreed to uphold.
  • 💔 Brijet's family struggles with open communication, often avoiding conflict after her father's passing, which has impacted their closeness.
  • 🗣️ Concerns are raised about Andre's intentions, his compatibility with Brijet, and his understanding of family values.

Confronting Past Trauma and Building Trust

  • ❓ During the "Family or Fiancé" tasks, Brijet's family questions their rushed engagement and Andre's suitability.
  • 😔 Brijet reveals a past sexual assault at 16, her mother's harsh reaction, and the long-term impact on her self-worth and relationships.
  • 🤝 Andre apologizes to Brijet's sister for comments made at dinner, showing a willingness to mend broken trust.

Seeking Resolution and Future Steps

  • 👩‍⚕️ Dr. Ally, a Clinical Psychologist, facilitates a session to address underlying trauma and family system issues.
  • 🚫 Brijet's family expresses disappointment and a lack of trust, with some unwilling to give their blessing for the marriage.
  • 🙏 Despite the challenges, Brijet and Andre decide to postpone the blessing ceremony, prioritizing individual healing and further discovery before proceeding with marriage plans.
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